We all
hesitate a bit when an ex send random “I miss you” text messages. For some it’s
easy to brush off with a simple “oh” (which is my favorite comeback), then for
some, it’s not as simple. Every now and then we actually miss them back or perhaps
we’re still single and a little lonely. Your response to that text will tell
him or her if there’s chance of sliding back into your good graces or if they
should just leave well enough alone. Depending on the reason behind the
break-up, we contemplate an invitation to catch up for old time sakes, even if
deep down we know eventually we’re going to regret it later.
I do believe some relationships (very few) are
worthy of a second chance. It could’ve been bad timing or too much distance
between the two individuals involved. Maybe one, or both, of you weren’t prepared
for a serious relationship at the time. If one of these pertain to you, it’s okay
to say, “I miss you too” (if you’re single). After all, I’ve seen couples get
back together and live that “happily ever after” life we dream of.
Sometimes
we’ve been hurt so badly that it’s impossible to forgive, let alone forget,
what a former lover has put us through. There are those relationships that are
irreparable and it’s better to move on regardless of how great the sex is or
how lavish the gifts are. Still, we’ll go back to them out of fear of being
alone. One the other hand, some of us are just selfish. Even though we don’t
want them, we stay because we can’t fathom seeing them with anyone else.
If a
situation is unhealthy and unbeneficial to you, let it go. Life’s too short to
be miserable an unhappy. Personally, I don’t believe in reigniting old flames, I’d
rather let bygones be bygones. I mean, we don’t have eyes in the back of our
heads for a reason! However, after speaking with an ex and reevaluating our
time together, I do think it’s worth another shot now that I’ve had time to
work on myself and grow as an individual. Who knows what will happen? I’m a
firm believer that what’s meant to be, will.
Before
you respond to that text message, take all I’ve said into consideration…. Thank
me later!
Sincerely,
F.C
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