The Art of Submission

Don’t get too excited, there won’t be any whips and chains in this post! What is Submission exactly? Somewhere along the way, we have all created our personal definition for the term so I’ll give my opinion. Submission isn’t summed up to a woman being at a man’s beck and call. It comes as a result of love, trust, and a desire to please. For the longest time, I didn’t believe in love so the thought of submitting myself to a man was ludicrous. When I finally did fall in love, there was a sense of vulnerability which allowed me to submit myself to him willing.

All men want a submissive woman but most aren’t ready to take on the responsibility that comes along with that. He should be her sole protector and provider. In a relationship, both individuals have duties to ensure it functions properly. It’s a two-way street, if a man expects dinner on the table, he should guarantee money for groceries (even if she works and have her own money). A submissive woman deserves be celebrated and appreciated. I don’t mean showered with gifts (well, yes I do) but it’s merely the simple things that matters most. Massage her feet and back at the end of the day, wash her car on the weekend and spend quality time with her. It’s the job of the dominant to make certain the submissive feels confident and secure in the relationship.  

I always say there’s a huge difference between having sex and making love. If you don’t believe this, you’ve never been in love. A submissive woman gives herself to her man entirely, fulfilling his sexual fantasies with a desire to please him. She trust him and knows his intentions aren’t selfish and comes with a desire to please her as well.

The art of submission is meant to be a beautiful thing.  A woman CAN NOT be forced or bullied into submission Women shouldn’t submit to every man they encounter. However, she has a duty to submit to the man she loves and trust, the man who respects and honors her position in their relationship. She’ll know she’s ready when there aren’t any walls and she’s completely vulnerable. She won’t worry about being hurt or neglected because she lives for him just as he lives for her.

Sincerely,

F.C.